Today we’d like to introduce you to Morgan Smith.
Morgan, please share your story with us. How did you get to where you are today?
It’s funny that you asked because for a long time, I didn’t feel as though I had a story to share. I always felt like the everyday young woman trying to figure out this thing we call LIFE. As I entered my early/mid 20’s, I began dealing with usual life bs-relationships, friendships, and trying to land the perfect job; I was basically trying to find the balance of living my best life while still trying to be a whole, heck better yet, half of an adult. Yet, internally I was dealing with all types of confused emotions, anxiety, waves of depression-baby I was all over the place, ya hear me?!? And while I did have my village (friends and family), I still felt like I was alone. I struggled so much with transparency because I wanted to figure it all out on my own, and besides, I didn’t have any “real” problems so it couldn’t have been that bad, right? Boy, was I wrong.
As I continued to internalize my thoughts and emotions, it was truly beginning to have an effect upon me. So, one day to help me release, I began to write down everything I felt and left it on the paper. Then I realized that sometimes that wasn’t enough. I needed to tell someone to see if they understood or if I am just simply tripping. I began gradually talking with my village about my thoughts and realized that they were or had been going through the same or similar things I had as well. So as much as it was a release for myself, it became one for them as well.
While relishing my new vulnerability, one day, I thought to myself, “girl, you and your friends cannot be the only ones dodging the hands of life every day; somebody out there needs a safe place to be vulnerable as well,” which prompted the idea of a podcast. I contemplated the idea of the podcast for a year but not truly making any moves until one day my best friend Bri and I were riding, just casually talking about our lives and all of the things we were going through at the time. I don’t recall what she said but I remember responding with, “It ain’t just you sis.” and in that moment, I literally felt it. I paused and looked at her and said, “Bria, that’s it. That’s’ the title of my podcast.”
The meaning of the title is a simple reminder that no matter what you are going through, I promise there is another good sis going through the same or similar situation with the same feelings, thoughts, and emotions as you. You’re not alone and your feelings are valid.
We’re always bombarded by how great it is to pursue your passion, etc – but we’ve spoken with enough people to know that it’s not always easy. Overall, would you say things have been easy for you?
Ehhh, it has its moments. With the podcast, my ultimate goal is to give my listeners a safe space to feel seen and heard. It also challenges me to be open and vulnerable, because how can I encourage/help someone else if I don’t want to look in the mirror? It definitely allows me to have those “get yo life” moments. LOL
We’d love to hear more about your work.
I am the creator of the podcast, “It Ain’t Just You Sis.” This podcast serves as an outlet for my people who are out here dealing with daily life struggles while still trying to live their best lives. Whether its relationships, finances, friends or just every aspect of life, let this podcast be your safe place to laugh, cry, cuss or even scream.
What I am most proud of is that the listeners don’t feel like they are just getting advice thrown at them or somebody just randomly talking about a topic. After each episode, I always get a message from someone saying they feel as if they are talking with their group of friends. This is what makes the podcast unique because no matter what the topic is, you always know… It ain’t just you SIS.
What were you like growing up?
Growing up, I was very alert and inquisitive. People always commented that I had the look of expectancy in my eyes. Though I had trouble expressing how I felt, I believe that is what pushed me to pursue my podcast. I think it’s important to discuss your inner thoughts and feelings because while you are helping yourself, you could be helping someone else as well.
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