Story & Lesson Highlights with Jaslyn Harris

Jaslyn Harris shared their story and experiences with us recently and you can find our conversation below.

Hi Jaslyn, thank you so much for joining us today. We’re thrilled to learn more about your journey, values and what you are currently working on. Let’s start with an ice breaker: Are you walking a path—or wandering?
I think for years after graduating from college, I had been wandering. I can now confidently say that I am walking a path, that’s been designed by God. If it weren’t for my obedience, I would’ve missed my call to action.

Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
My name is Jaslyn Harris, AKA Stormy!🌪️

I am the CEO & Founder of MyMovesMoveU LLC; an Atlanta based organization that strives to create safe spaces for people to grow in their creativity, wellness and entrepreneurship!

I am a professional dancer, I work full time as a Sr. HR Administrative Coordinator, I curate wellness and entrepreneurial events, I host The MovesU Heard Podcast, and I am now pursuing my Master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling!

But most importantly, I am God’s creation – I am a Black Woman, an oldest daughter, a big sister, a friend, a nurturer, a prayer warrior, an empath, a healer, a light, and so much more!

My brand and purpose stems from my experience with depression and my love and dedication towards healing my community right along with me. I love the arts (specially dance), and I have a special place in my heart for entrepreneurs. I am determined to bridge the gap between the creative world and mental health as I grow within my own journey day by day.

Okay, so here’s a deep one: What breaks the bonds between people—and what restores them?
Ooo, this is a great question.

I think what breaks bonds between people is the person before the mirror. What I mean by that is you and the other person’s past selves. Every relationship you have serves a purpose. Whether it’s familial, friendly, or romantic, those who you form relationships with all bring out various parts of who make you who you are; good or bad. Relationships are like mirrors – it forces you to learn more about who you are through the lens of someone else. Being accountable for your weaknesses, imperfections, or faults can be very difficult, and some refuse to face this. When a person is faced with this truth, they have two choices: 1. Reflect and grow through it, or 2. Ignore it, and continue living in your comfort zone. Most of the time, one person out of the relationship grows, while the other stays in their comfort zone. When this happens, the two are now misaligned and will continue to clash into a dysfunctional relationship. What restores them, is when both decide to grow and heal intentionally and together.

If you could say one kind thing to your younger self, what would it be?
“I am enough. I love you.”

I currently have this written on my mirror and I read that statement to myself every morning. If I had truly believed this as my younger self, I probably could’ve avoided a lot of heartache, burnout, times of overthinking, low self-confidence and anxiety. Growing up as a young black girl, there have been many times where I thought I wasn’t good enough. For as long as I can remember, I’ve been judged by my hair type, my skin tone, my choice of career/art, what I wear, and where I’m from. Nothing seemed to be enough, or sometimes, these characteristics have been too much for those around me. It made me obsess over perfectionism. I’ve dealt with manipulation and I tend to be very performative with an urge to people please just so that I could feel like I’m valued, accepted and worthy. However, as I’ve grown, I’ve developed a wonderful relationship with God; who reminds me everyday that I am made in His image. My goal is no longer to appease others. I truly love the skin that I’m in, and all I strive to do is serve Him on the Earth for as long as he’ll have me. I now know that I am enough, and I love myself more and more every single day.

I think our readers would appreciate hearing more about your values and what you think matters in life and career, etc. So our next question is along those lines. How do you differentiate between fads and real foundational shifts?
Patience & Purpose!

If it is purpose led, you’re not doing it for yourself. You wake up every single day knowing that you have a job to do, a mission to accomplish for the sake of others. You know that if you don’t become who you are destined to be, you are depriving someone else of their blessing. It’s not about your fame, following, or funds. Real foundational shifts takes patience! This is not a race ladies and gentlemen, this is a marathon. These shifts are truly life changing; which takes moments of realization, processing, denial, grieving, accepting, and action – which can take years in between. You’re not going to become your ultimate self overnight, and that’s just a fact.

Okay, so before we go, let’s tackle one more area. If you knew you had 10 years left, what would you stop doing immediately?
I’d stop hesitating to travel and pack my bags right now! Sometimes, I get stuck on my financial capabilities, who may or may not be able to travel with me, and my “lack of time”. However, I want to see the world! And I deserve it, so maybe I need to start planning my next trip after this interview lol.

Contact Info:

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymovesmoveullc/
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/herecomes.thestorm3
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@jaslynharris_stormy
• Other: Go Fund Me: https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-jaslyns-journey-to-become-a-mental-health-therapist?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAae2uuaIsThWhy-jgjVFzcciuUQNSQsBcaPnleUiIzp8hBadozZIL5h0nUmZYA_aem_CCh2O1QDy-NhD1dlwAujUw

Image Credits
Key Watson AKA Three of Pax Unlimited