Trenez Scott’s Stories, Lessons & Insights

We recently had the chance to connect with Trenez Scott and have shared our conversation below.

Trenez , it’s always a pleasure to learn from you and your journey. Let’s start with a bit of a warmup: What are you most proud of building — that nobody sees?
I have many accomplishments I’m proud of, but my most recent is launching a new business venture that’s deeply personal to me. In 2024, I realized how much candles had become a staple in my home—not just for ambiance, but for emotional comfort. There was one scent in particular that I loved and wanted to recreate as a gift for my mother. That inspiration sparked months of research into candle-making and the world of luxury home goods.
By March 2024, I fully immersed myself in learning the craft. Fast forward to July 2025, and I’m incredibly proud to share that Flaménoir Aroma (/flām-a-nwär/) is officially in its soft launch phase and already gaining beautiful momentum. I’ve been intentional about not rushing the process. Every step has been thoughtful and purpose-driven.
Starting a business is no easy task—it requires time, energy, and a lot of discipline. One of the most important lessons I’ve learned is that you can’t do it all alone. Building a strong, passionate team, people who not only believe in your vision but are also committed to their individual role in the brand’s success is absolutely essential.

Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
My name is Trenez Scott, a fashion stylist and creative originally from Farmhaven, Mississippi. My journey in fashion began in 2011 after securing my first internship at New York Fashion Week, where I was immediately drawn to the power of styling and visual storytelling. In 2019, I relocated to Atlanta to fully pursue a career in wardrobe styling. The transition wasn’t easy—I worked at Zara for under a year while steadily building my network and portfolio, all while staying committed to my long-term goal of entrepreneurship.
Before Atlanta, I worked in Mississippi as an independent contractor for Pacific Retail, where I managed everything from large-scale holiday décor installations to visual merchandising for independently owned businesses. That foundation, paired with my retail experience, gave me a strong understanding of both sides of the fashion industry—sales and product presentation.
Today, I’ve gone on to style for nationally recognized brands like Pantene, Shea Moisture, Capital One, Papa Johns, and Indique Hair, and I’ve had the pleasure of working with talent such as Cynthia Bailey, Beverly Peele, Latoya Tonodeo, and more. I am also in my 11th season working with American brand, Sergio Hudson. While the industry has shifted over the years, what makes my work unique is my obsessive attention to detail and a deep commitment to excellence. Every project I take on is an opportunity to create lasting, visually impactful moments that tell a story.

Amazing, so let’s take a moment to go back in time. Who were you before the world told you who you had to be?
Before the world told me who I had to be, I was a young Black boy from Mississippi with big dreams and an even bigger heart. I always envisioned myself as someone who carried a presence, someone others could not only admire but also genuinely connect with. I believed that love would always surround me, that it would be the constant in my life. And for a while, that belief shaped how I moved through the world.
But as we all eventually learn, the world, and the way we’re raised, can shape and shift our understanding of identity. Society has a way of influencing who you become, often pulling you away from who you truly are. Now at 35, I’m still in the process of discovering who Trenez really is and what purpose I’m here to serve.
Styling is a passion, but it’s not my entire identity. I don’t want to be known just for putting together great looks, I want to be remembered as someone who genuinely cared, who made people feel seen, and who left a lasting impression simply by being present. That’s the kind of legacy I’m working toward.

Was there ever a time you almost gave up?
There are so many layers to this question, but to put it simply—yes, there have absolutely been times I’ve wanted to give up. I think, if we’re being real, there’s something almost every day that challenges our will to keep going. But it’s in those moments that we’re forced to define what our purpose truly looks like—both through our own lens and through how we impact others.
For me, I tend to feel that urge to give up when I don’t feel seen—when it seems like people aren’t really acknowledging the work I’m doing or the passion I put into it. And a lot of that, especially now, is tied to the pressure of social media. It’s become this overwhelming force that often skews our perception of success, validation, and worth. It can easily make you feel like you’re not doing enough, or that your progress doesn’t matter.
But I’ve learned that separating myself from negativity, whether it’s people, environments, or online noise, has been essential. This year, I’ve spent a lot of intentional time alone. That solitude has helped me reconnect with who I am, outside of external expectations. It’s also allowed me to face some hard truths about the world and about myself. I’m learning that giving up isn’t really an option when you’re grounded in your purpose, even if you have to redefine it along the way.

I think our readers would appreciate hearing more about your values and what you think matters in life and career, etc. So our next question is along those lines. What are the biggest lies your industry tells itself?
The industry has a way of subtly and sometimes loudly, reminding you that you’re “not good enough.” I often find myself in a space of constantly trying to prove my worth, to validate my seat at the table. That pressure can be exhausting. But at the root of it, it comes back to how you see yourself and how strongly you believe in your passion and purpose.
What I’ve learned is that people may not always understand what you’re building while you’re in the process of building it and that’s okay. Recognition often comes after the work is done, not while you’re still shaping it. For me, the industry has made me feel like I’m in the room, but still somehow on the edge of it. That feeling can be a daily challenge when you’re constantly trying to figure out what’s next and how to evolve without losing yourself.
But growth starts internally. If you keep practicing your craft, consistently reflecting, and being open to improving, you start to shift your mindset. You begin focusing less on the what nots and what ifs, and more on what’s possible and how to make it happen with purpose and clarity.

Okay, so let’s keep going with one more question that means a lot to us: If you knew you had 10 years left, what would you stop doing immediately?
If I knew I had 10 years left, I would stop doubting myself, immediately! I would stop shrinking, second-guessing my ideas, and overthinking how I’m being perceived. I would stop trying to meet everyone else’s timeline or standard of success, especially in an industry that often makes you feel like you’re constantly auditioning for your worth.
I’ve spent so much time questioning whether I’m doing enough or if people truly see what I bring to the table. But if time were limited, I would shift all of that energy toward living boldly and creating with intention. I would lean into joy, create from a place of truth, and surround myself only with people and projects that align with love, peace, and purpose. I wouldn’t wait for the “right moment” to start or share anything. I would do it NOW, and do it fully.

Contact Info:

• Website: https://www.trenezscott.com
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/treneztheceo/
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Treneztheceo
• Other: https://www.trenezscott.com/flamenoiraroma

Image Credits
Image Credits:
Allen Cooley (3)
Eppsshotme (1)
Dalvin Adams (2)
Jordan Visions (2)
Jason Page (1)
TonyBee (1)