Today we’d like to introduce you to Brittnee Wilder.
Alright, so thank you so much for sharing your story and insight with our readers. To kick things off, can you tell us a bit about how you got started?
My journey into this work didn’t start in a classroom or boardroom. It started in my own healing.
Like many women, I spent years being the nurturer, the giver, the one who held everything together for everyone else. On the outside, life looked fine, but internally I was navigating deep emotional wounds, generational patterns, and eventually a life-altering divorce that forced me to really confront who I was and what I wanted my life to look like moving forward.
That season of my life became my awakening.
Instead of staying stuck in pain, I became obsessed with healing and personal growth. I immersed myself in modalities like NLP, hypnotherapy, sound healing, and spiritual development. I began doing the deep inner work and unpacking trauma, changing my mindset, rebuilding my self-worth, and reconnecting with God in a way that transformed my life.
What started as a personal healing journey quickly turned into a calling.
I started publicly sharing my story. Women started coming to me asking how I was able to rebuild my life with so much peace, confidence, and clarity after divorce and personal hardship. That’s when I realized my experiences weren’t just something I survived, but they were something I was meant to use to help other women.
Today, through my business, Brittnee Wilder LLC, I help women, especially those navigating divorce, major life transitions, or identity shifts, heal deeply, reclaim their power, and create lives that feel aligned with who God created them to be. I use a combination of coaching, hypnotherapy, sound healing, and mindset work to help women release emotional blocks, break generational cycles, and step into a more abundant and peaceful life.
I’m also the author of Bolder, Better, Wilder, The CEO & Founder of The Wealthy Woman Lounge, a transformational speaker, and the creator of experiences and programs designed to help women rediscover themselves and live boldly after life’s hardest seasons.
Looking back, what once felt like the most painful chapters of my life became the foundation of my purpose. Today, I’m grateful that my story allows me to sit with other women in their hardest moments and remind them that healing, freedom, and a beautiful new chapter are absolutely possible.
Would you say it’s been a smooth road, and if not what are some of the biggest challenges you’ve faced along the way?
The road here was anything but smooth. But looking back, I can see that the struggles weren’t detours ,but they were the path itself.
The most defining challenge was navigating divorce and having to rebuild my life from the inside out — emotionally, spiritually, mentally. Divorce has a way of stripping everything down to the bare questions: Who am I without this? Am I enough? Where do I go from here? For a while, I had to sit with the grief of a life I thought I was building, and learn to make peace with a future I hadn’t planned for.
Then came the deeper work and healing is rarely what people imagine it to be. It’s not soft lighting and breakthroughs. It’s uncomfortable. It’s confronting old trauma, breaking generational patterns, and being honest about the ways you’ve been shrinking yourself or quietly accepting less than you deserved. There were seasons of loneliness, self-doubt, and moments where I genuinely questioned whether I was on the right path.
Building a purpose-driven business in the middle of all of that added another layer of vulnerability. When your work is rooted in your personal story, showing up publicly means showing all of it — the pain, the process, the parts you’re still figuring out. I had to learn to own my story without shame and trust that the right women would find their way to my message.
And then there were the practical realities: learning to run a business, build an audience, and confidently step into rooms, stages, media, and spaces I once would have talked myself out of. Each obstacle had a lesson embedded in it.
What I know now is that none of it was wasted. Because I’ve walked through pain, through healing, through starting over and I can sit with women in their hardest moments and truly get it. Not from a textbook, but from experience.
The struggles didn’t break me. They refined me. And they’re exactly why I’m able to do this work.
Thanks – so what else should our readers know about your work and what you’re currently focused on?
Through my business, Brittnee Wilder LLC, I help women heal, rebuild, and rediscover who they truly are after major life transitions like divorce. My work sits at the intersection of personal development, emotional healing, and faith.
I specialize in helping women release the emotional weight of their past so they can move forward with clarity, confidence, and peace. I use a combination of transformational tools including NLP, hypnotherapy, Time Line Therapy, sound healing, and mindset coaching to help women break generational patterns, shift limiting beliefs, and reconnect with the woman they were always meant to be.
Over time, I’ve become known for creating safe spaces where women can have honest conversations about healing, identity, and starting over. Whether it’s through coaching, workshops, speaking engagements, or events like my Divorce Dialogues conversations, my goal is always to remind women that their story isn’t over just because one chapter ended.
One of the things I’m most proud of is the community of women who have allowed me to walk alongside them in some of the most vulnerable moments of their lives. Watching a woman go from feeling lost, ashamed, or uncertain after divorce to standing confidently in her power again is one of the most rewarding parts of what I do.
What truly sets my work apart is that it’s deeply rooted in my own lived experience. I’m not teaching from theory. I’m teaching from a place of having done the work myself. I’ve walked through heartbreak, identity loss, healing, and rebuilding, and I bring that authenticity into every space I lead.
I also integrate spiritual alignment into my work. For me, healing isn’t just about mindset, but it’s truly about reconnecting with God, restoring your sense of purpose, and realizing that even life’s hardest moments can become the foundation for something greater.
At the end of the day, my mission is simple: to help women realize that their past does not disqualify them from living a bold, peaceful, and abundant life.
What makes you happy?
Happiness, for me, lives in the quiet, meaningful moments and not the grand ones.
At the top of that list is my daughter. Being her mom is one of the greatest joys of my life. The time we spend together reminds me what actually matters and has a way of bringing me back to myself whenever life gets loud.
I’m also someone who genuinely loves being alive. I love my friends, deep belly laughs, karaoke nights, dancing, new experiences, and finding a meal so good it becomes a memory. There’s something about those moments of pure connection and joy that remind you that this is what it means to really live, not just get through the day.
And then there’s the work. Few things move me the way witnessing a real breakthrough does. When a woman finally releases something she’s been carrying for years. The pain, shame, fear, a story that was never even hers to begin with and you can see the shift happen in real time? That never gets old. I get excited for my clients in a way that’s deeply personal, because I know exactly what’s waiting on the other side of that moment.
Having walked my own healing journey, I understand in my bones what it means to finally feel free, peaceful, and like yourself again. Getting to witness that transformation in someone else and to play even a small part in it , is one of the most fulfilling things I’ve ever done.
It’s a constant reminder that healing is real, it’s possible, and there is so much beauty waiting just beyond the hardest part.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.wildabouthealing.com
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brittneewilder/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/coachbrittneewilder/
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brittneewilder
- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@brittneewilder
Image Credits
Jasmine Smith Photography
Carlos Rivero
