We asked some of the wisest people we know what they would tell their younger selves. Check out their responses below.
Rachel Linkwald
Give yourself space to grow and explore. Everyone will ask what you want to be when you grow up. But stop looking for a vocation, and start looking for a passion. Let it blossom. Give it space to become a career. And then give yourself space to have a second career. And maybe a third. Read more>>
Tanequa Mack
I would tell my younger self, “You are stronger than you think, and every challenge you face is shaping you into the woman you’re destined to become. Don’t be afraid to dream bigger than your circumstances, and never let fear convince you that you’re not enough. Read more>>
Kimberly Farris
If I could say one kind thing to my younger self, it would be: you don’t have to shrink or overextend yourself to be worthy. The world will place heavy expectations on you as a Black woman, but rest, joy, and softness are not luxuries, they are your birthright. Read more>>
Shawntavia Bell
I’d say, ‘Don’t be afraid of the experiments life puts you through–they’re shaping you. Every setback is data, every detour is direction. Trust the process, you’re becoming who you’re meant to be.’ Read more>>
Nick Johnson
I’d tell my younger self to trust the process and not be so hard on yourself. Everything you’re stressing about—whether you’re good enough, whether you’ll make it, whether people will see your value—it’s all going to work out as long as you keep showing up and doing the work and keeping God first. Read more>>
Britnee Alphin
You matter. You matter in all the imperfect ways, all the becoming ways, all the silent ways and all the big ways. Your voice matters. When you truly come into who you are you will learn how to show up for yourself without feeling guilty and still have room to hold space for others. Read more>>
EJ King, MSM
I think my younger self needed to hear that nobody else had it figured out either. I spent far too many years feeling confused as if I was behind on what everyone else got quickly and naturally. This was not the case. Read more>>
Leylis MR
If I could say one kind thing to my younger self, it would be: “Protect your fire and sparks. It’s rare, it’s sacred, and it will guide you through every storm.” I would remind her that the doubts of others are not her own, and that the path ahead doesn’t need to be rushed. Read more>>
Nyla Turman
Trust yourself, your vision, and keep going. Everything you’re dreaming of is possible — and you’re stronger than you realize.” Read more>>
Jevon Peak
I would tell my younger self, first and foremost, that you’re going to be okay. Every twist, every setback, every unexpected turn is part of life’s architecture—shaping you into someone wiser, more resilient, and far more compassionate toward the stories and testimonies of others. Stay present. Pay attention. Read more>>
Neutron Mendoza
I would tell my younger self don’t ever stop being the best version of you Read more>>
