Today we’d like to introduce you to Nilam Patel.
Hi Nilam, can you start by introducing yourself? We’d love to learn more about how you got to where you are today?
There are often times, when we as Women often keep our choices on hold, for what we think is the betterment of our families, but in reality, deep down inside they burn us Out!
My journey hasn’t been a fairy tale, I have had my own ups and downs in life. I have been through abuse, depression and separation. Leaving all of it in the past, I decided to create a life of my own dreams. My dream of the world that is happy and judgment-free.
Hello, I am Nilam, who took the step of divorce to end my silence on 25 years of a claustrophobic marriage where I can’t even count the nights I slept crying, broken, and shattered.
On International Women’s Day in 2021, I launch my first Podcast, where I talk about my journey of falling in love, my realizations of domestic brutality, and finally overcoming the torture that for years deprived me of chasing my own dreams – A NILAM IN YOU (@anilaminyou), where listening to my podcast, you too want to raise your voice and come up front, because if I can anyone of you can.
We all face challenges, but looking back would you describe it as a relatively smooth road?
I went thru many obstacles and challenges in life such as separation, social exclusion, financial crises, living with a narcissist, starting a new career, and judgments of friends, family, and society that block us from our true potential.
All this is trauma, and it is very different from person to person. However, the common factor is doubting yourself and loss of confidence is always around.
Good news is that you can overcome the hindrances. I have been through this journey and today, I stand as a certified life coach because in this process of personal recovery, I realized my purpose was bigger, I wanted to make this struggle easier for others.
Alright, so let’s switch gears a bit and talk business. What should we know about your work?
#Podcaster- Started the journey of podcasting in the year 2021, on international women’s day- today standing on 4 seasons and 1000+ listeners.
#womenrightsactivist- Continue to participate and involved in leadership positions in organizing events for women’s rights awareness.
#TransformationTuesday Session – Conduct live interviews with various Non-Government Organizations (NGO), Non-Profit Organizations (NPO) and trusts that have been working for the societal welfare in India and abroad.
#Lifecoach and #Meditationcoach
#Go To Positivity destination
We are @anilaminyou on Instagram, YouTube, and Facebook, you speak we hear!
What has been the most important lesson you’ve learned along your journey?
Focusing on our blessings, ongoing healing, and continuous learning process, I am now celebrating Independence from opinions, thoughts, and actions of others that undermine one’s self-worth.
The past does hurt when it keeps coming up and it deprives you of living free. However, I can’t be more thankful to the universe which at every step has made me realize the more I believe in myself, the more I trust the process of things and situations changing they do.
With help of Meditation and Podcasting, my healing process has started. I continue to share my experiences with others unconditionally.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://linktr.ee/anilaminyou
- Instagram: anilaminyou
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/anilaminyou
- Youtube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCM82TdceuV2rXLuPGe0gr7Q
