We’re looking forward to introducing you to Tonia Thomas. Check out our conversation below.
Hi Tonia, thank you for taking the time to reflect back on your journey with us. I think our readers are in for a real treat. There is so much we can all learn from each other and so thank you again for opening up with us. Let’s get into it: Have you stood up for someone when it cost you something?
In life, there are moments that test our character and compassion, pushing us to make difficult decisions. One such moment for me was when I stood up for someone I didn’t know, ultimately choosing to leave a friendship behind due to the constant negativity and criticism from that friendship about others every time we spoke. She then tried to be little me on social media. I decided not to engage in disrespect and to keep my peace. This experience taught me invaluable lessons about integrity, courage, and the importance of standing by one’s principles.
Through this experience, I learned that standing up for others, even at a personal cost, is a testament to one’s character. It reinforced the idea that true friendship should be grounded in respect and empathy, not in negativity and criticism. Additionally, it highlighted the significance of surrounding oneself with people who uplift and support each other.
standing up for someone, even when it costs you something, is a courageous act that strengthens both personal and collective integrity. It is a reminder that doing what is right often requires sacrifice, but the rewards of a clear conscience and genuine relationships are worth it.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
My name is Tonia Thomas and I am the the owner of Shyneeknobs Vegan Nail Polish, also known as the nail polish that inspires through color. Shyneeknobs aims to inspire women and girls to love themselves from within. To follow their heart, to give ourselves grace, to follow our passion, to embrace our flaws, and most importantly to recognize our strengths. Moving in your strength is a powerful pathway to becoming better towards your future self. It involves embracing your unique abilities, building confidence, finding fulfillment, contributing to your community, cultivating resilience, and fostering continuous growth. By aligning your actions with your strengths, you set the stage for a meaningful and impactful life, paving the way for a brighter future.
Here at Shyneeknobs we also have our girls line of nail polish called Princessknobs, a stationary business called Pippispaper, and now a Selfcare line for women called Excesskin. All on Shyneeknobs website spreading the message of loving yourself and stay positive.
Great, so let’s dive into your journey a bit more. Who saw you clearly before you could see yourself?
So, lets say in the journey of self-discovery, there are often pivotal figures who understand us better than we understand ourselves. Yes I can say my mother, grandmother, or anyone else, however, for me, one such figure have been God providing a unique perspective and unwavering support that has guided me through both turbulent and triumphant times.
Throughout my life, I have felt a profound sense of guidance and clarity from my faith in God. This divine insight has often illuminated paths I was hesitant to take, offering a wisdom that transcends human understanding. In moments of doubt and uncertainty, my faith has been a source of comfort, gently nudging me towards the person I am meant to become. The belief that a higher power sees the potential within me, even when I struggle to see it myself, has been a powerful motivator in my personal growth
In essence, the clarity with which God see me has been a guiding light, helping me grow into a person I am proud to be. Gods insight and support continue to be a source of strength, reminding me that I am never alone on this journey of self-discovery.
If you could say one kind thing to your younger self, what would it be?
Dear Younger Me,
If I could sit down with you today, I would gently take your hand and share a few thoughts that I’ve learned along the way. You are a unique and wonderful soul, filled with kindness, love, and a quiet strength that shines brightly, even when you feel it doesn’t.
Although you maybe quiet and shy around new people isn’t a flaw; it’s a part of your beautiful complexity. Your introverted nature allows you to see the world in ways others might overlook. Cherish your ability to listen deeply and appreciate the small wonders that others might miss. Remember, it’s perfectly okay to take your time to open up to new people.
There will be many times you may feel alone can be challenging, especially when surrounded by others. But know this: you are never truly alone. As a child of God, you are always embraced by divine love and guidance. This spiritual connection is a source of profound comfort and strength, even in your loneliest moments.
Your kindness and loving nature are gifts to the world. These traits will open doors to genuine connections and friendships that will enrich your life. Continue to nurture these qualities and let them guide you in all your interactions. Remember, your cheerful spirit has the power to uplift others in ways you may never realize.
One last thing, you have an incredible thirst for knowledge that sets you apart. This curiosity will lead you to amazing discoveries and opportunities. Never stop learning and exploring, as this will be the foundation of your growth and the key to unlocking your potential. Know that your voice is important and deserves to be heard. Speak up for what you believe in and share your insights with the world. Your perspective is valuable, and expressing it can lead to positive change for yourself and those around you.
All being said remember to trust in your journey. You are on a path filled with purpose and potential. Embrace who you are, love yourself fiercely, and know that you are enough—just as you are.
With love and understanding,
Your Future Self
Tonia
Sure, so let’s go deeper into your values and how you think. What’s a belief or project you’re committed to, no matter how long it takes?
As the proud owner of Shyneeknobs Vegan Nail Polish, a brand known as “the nail polish that inspires through color,” I am deeply committed to uplifting women and girls to love themselves from within. This commitment extends beyond the vibrant hues in our nail polish line; it is a belief in the transformative power of self-expression and self-love.
At the heart of Shyneeknobs is the belief that every woman and girl possesses an inner strength and beauty that deserves to be celebrated. Our mission is to empower individuals to embrace their uniqueness and express themselves confidently. We aim to create a space where color becomes a medium for self-discovery and acceptance.
While this may take time to fully develop and reach its potential, the impact of fostering a community of empowered individuals is invaluable. By staying true to our belief in the power of color and self-expression, Shyneeknobs Vegan Nail Polish will continue to inspire and uplift, one shade at a time. The journey of empowerment is ongoing, and I am committed to seeing it through, embracing every challenge and triumph along the way.
Okay, so before we go, let’s tackle one more area. When do you feel most at peace?
As an introverted woman, navigating a world that often seems to favor the outspoken and extroverted can be challenging. There was a time when I felt out of place, overwhelmed by the expectation to be someone I wasn’t. It was during these moments of inner turmoil that I turned to my faith in God, finding solace and understanding in His presence.
God has been a constant source of comfort, guiding me towards an acceptance of my true self. Through prayer and reflection, I have come to see that my introverted nature is not a flaw but a gift. It allows me to connect with others on a deeper level, to listen with empathy, and to appreciate the quiet beauty in the world around me. God’s love has reassured me that I am fearfully and wonderfully made, just as I am. In my faith, I have learned to embrace solitude, transforming it from a source of loneliness into a space for spiritual growth and introspection. These quiet moments with God are when I feel most at peace, enveloped in His love and guidance. It is in the silence that I hear His gentle whispers, encouraging me to embrace my uniqueness and find strength in my quiet demeanor.
God has shown me that strength can be found in silence and that I do not need to change who I am to be heard or valued. Through my relationship with Him, I have learned that my voice matters, even if it is not the loudest in the room. He has taught me to speak with conviction when necessary and to remain true to my values.
In embracing my introverted nature through faith, I have discovered a profound sense of peace, knowing that I am exactly who I am meant to be.
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