We all think we’re being real—whether in public or in private—but the deeper challenge is questioning whether we truly know our real selves at all. In any case, even when we know ourselves we might face various pressures that push us to fit in or not cause trouble – so even the most well-intentioned person might struggle to always be 100% real in public. Sometimes the simplest questions are actually the most complex. Thankfully, we have some wonderful members of the community who offered to share their thoughts on this challenging question.
Brittany Stephenson
Yes—the public version of me is the real me because I’ve always vowed and learned to show up as my true, authentic self. What you see is genuinely who I am: honest, grounded, and growing. What people see is the same person I am behind closed doors: honest, intentional, faith-led, and still learning. Read more>>
Jazmine Nichole
People love to ask this because they swear I’m two different women. People assume the public version of me is some kind of character because she feels bold, sensual and effortlessly in control. But the truth is… that’s me. That’s the part of me that knows her power, enjoys her softness, and isn’t afraid to be desired or admired. Read more>>
Dr. Jonathan Haynes
Yes !!! the public version is me. The difference is that the public sees the strength, the accomplishments, and the smile. What they don’t always see are the struggles and sacrifices that built that version. But every part is authentically mine.” Read more>>
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