We all carry parts of ourselves that once protected us, guided us, or kept us safe—but no longer serve who we’re becoming. Letting go can be one of the hardest acts of growth. Some of the most enlightened members of the community share their thoughts on this below.
Melba Payan
The part of me that was always trying to prove myself to everyone else has run its course. For years, I measured my worth by what I did, how I performed, and whether others approved. I can still feel the weight of it, the tightness in my chest that kept me running even when I was exhausted. Lately, I’m letting that go. Read more>>
Jasmine Mapps
I no longer seek validation from family and friends. As a Black person in business, I expected my loved ones to be proud and supportive, but that hasn’t always been the case. Now, I concentrate on what’s best for myself and the community I am creating. My focus has shifted to gaining support and persisting in my work. Read more>>
Nyeesha Williams
I’d say the part of me that I’ve released is the performative version of myself — the part that felt the need to constantly prove, persuade, or package everything for validation. Read more>>
