Is the public version of you the real you?

We all think we’re being real—whether in public or in private—but the deeper challenge is questioning whether we truly know our real selves at all. In any case, even when we know ourselves we might face various pressures that push us to fit in or not cause trouble – so even the most well-intentioned person might struggle to always be 100% real in public. Sometimes the simplest questions are actually the most complex. Thankfully, we have some wonderful members of the community who offered to share their thoughts on this challenging question.

Jose Maria Llano

I Lead with Heart I don’t just talk about success — I show people how to chase it. Whether it’s coaching my team at H2O Prime International or mentoring young entrepreneurs, my energy is real, my advice is lived, and my mission is personal. Read more>>

Bucky Amadeus Bassette

If I’m being honest… not always. The public version of me is polished. Composed. Purposeful. It carries the mission, the message, the movement. It smiles through the chaos, speaks with conviction, and keeps the focus on the light — even when I’m still wrestling with my own shadows. But behind that version is a man who still prays for peace when the cameras stop rolling. Read more>>

Langston John Blaze

I let the public see a version of me that’s true but I’ve definitely been a mysterious person. I don’t open up to everyone. I like my peace but some times maybe a little too much. One thing I’ve learned is that people are necessary to build together. You can’t do everything alone. Yet you also can’t let everyone in. Read more>>

Tanesha Latonya

Yes, what you see is what you get, I am 100% authentic everyday all day, Whether at work, spending time with my friends. I don’t like fake and phony people. I am always vulnerable and very trust worthy, in which sometimes not a good thing for me. Read more>>

Lexee Love

That would be a YES!! I am a very quiet person. I always read the room. When I’m alone I am quiet I don’t need entertainment or even a bunch of people around me. Actually it can be quite overwhelming for me. I’m the girl that will stand in the back and watch. Read more>>

Brandi Inman

Absolutely. I am so very lucky to have hundreds of clients every year welcome me into their lives and homes and special occasions to share their true selves with me. It wouldn’t be fair not to show up as my true self as well. Read more>>

JaQwannia Brown

Honestly, yes. What you see is really me. I’ve learned to show up as my true self, both online and offline. Of course, I have moments when I’m quiet or need to recharge, but the person I share with the world is genuine. Read more>>

Gretchen Norman

I would definitely say it is. One thing I can’t stand are fake people. They are usually pretty easy to spot. Read more>>